Welcome Home: Our Duty To Thank Veterans for Theirs

Posted: March 30, 2014 in 9/11, Books, family, Government, History, Holidays, Life, remembrance, storytelling, War, Writing
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Extraordinary stories of ordinary people

Extraordinary stories of ordinary people

“That’s Mary Ford,” I said, pointing to the faded image of the Army nurse on the man’s tee shirt.

He nodded.

“She was my sister. She’s in here, too,” he said, holding up a booklet.

“I know. I’m the one who put her in there.”

We shook hands and both started crying.

In September of 2006, South Dakota dedicated its Vietnam War Memorial with a three-day celebration. Today, the state observes its first “Welcome Home Vietnam Veterans Day”, an official state holiday to honor those who served in Vietnam.

I was on the planning committee for the 2006 event, the third war memorial dedication in our state. I’d worked on the previous two as well, for the World War II Memorial in 2001 (literally days after 9/11) and the Korean War Memorial in 2004. My duties were to design, write and oversee the production of all the printed materials like invitations, signs, apparel, name badges, banners, concert tickets and so on. And the commemorative program booklet which for the Vietnam War Memorial Dedication included the pictures and stories of more than a dozen South Dakota veterans.

Thousands of veterans, along with friends and family members, submitted photos and stories for the dedication website and a book “The Vietnam War: South Dakota Remembers” that was published in conjunction with the event. I read and reviewed all of them.

I knew some of those people. Dennis Foell, Nick Roseland, Dale Christopherson, the Harford brothers (Warren, Jerry and Doug), Dale Bertsch, Francis Whitebird. Others I didn’t, like Mary Ford. But their memories and images were no less compelling or personal to me.

Some Vietnam veterans wouldn’t attend that weekend and given the reception they got when they first came home after the war, that’s to be expected. Sometimes a “Thank you and welcome home” 30 years later is too little, too late.

There are moments from that fall weekend in 2006 that I will always remember. The biker with the Vietnam Veteran patch who saw the “committee” designation on my shirt and asked if he could hug me. I said yes. The quiet man who handed me his “Find a Buddy” card to hang on the board and whose “buddy” turned out to be the older brother of one of my friends. A few quick phone calls later, they were reunited for the first time since shipping out together. And meeting Mary Ford’s brother who had brought his family to the dedication in her honor because she couldn’t attend herself. The smiling, compassionate woman who’d entered the service on Halloween 1967 and served two tours in Vietnam as an Army nurse died in 1998.

It’s March 30, “Welcome Home Vietnam Veterans Day” in South Dakota. Who are you thanking today?

  1. Carroll Collins says:

    Very good, Kelly. I remember that many people seemed to ignore the Vietnam Veterans. That was not good at all. I was in the Air Force during the Vietnam War, but was not directly involved in the war itself.

    • I remember the soldiers in our hometown coming home from Vietnam. Even as a kid, I think I knew they were being treated differently though I may not have understood why. I’ve always been proud that you were a Vietnam era veteran.

  2. Denise says:

    You and everyone did a great job in 2006, can’t believe it has been that long ago! There were many people that were touched and honored that day. It was a humbling experience to be there that day. Kudos to everyone involved that helped out in any way!
    Kelly you always do a great job in everything you take on, so thank you!!
    I thank EVERY vet for everything they have done, past present and future!

    • Time flies, doesn’t it? We had an incredible group working on those events; it was especially emotional for those committee members and workers who were Vietnam veterans themselves. It was very humbling and when people ask me what’s the one accomplishment I am most proud of, I always say it was working on the war memorials for the veterans. Thanks for the kind words, Denise.

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